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- 15 SIGNS OF A NEGATIVE PERSON. • Keela Craft Ambrose
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- 15 SIGNS OF A NEGATIVE PERSON.
Began very slow but has momentum. My first divorce dragged out but it was so benign compared to this divorce. But my first husband softened and we were able to talk and raise a son separately but together. This divorce? He did everything he could to push me away and into filing. He would never have filed so he could blame me and play the victim.
He is just as hostile and …awful as he was those first months. We have two amazing girls to raise. Oh they see what he is. My nine year old broke down one day recently, she told me she hates being at the house of course he refused to move out of our house so I moved , it makes her sad because he has changed things a little, but enough to remind her what life was when first moved.
I had pulled out pictures from when we first married; my hair was totally different being long, blond curls. But the girls recognized even though my hair has been red all their lives and I was much thinner. They asked who was with me in the picture; it was their father. The girls both see life with all their senses. Mutual friend tried to warn her. I made a mistake of commenting on a tweet. They found me again. I have to have various identities anonymously on social media. Until divorce finalized, I have to be careful. But I cannot work so rely on financial support from him.
He could stop it any moment and leave me with no way to pay bills. Yes, I can take him to court but by the time court comes around, I would be homeless. I am forever tied to my vampire. I stay quiet unless online and then its risky. But I need more help. Like he is a tumor in my brain with tentacles dug in deep. I embrace anger, jealousy and rage and much as I embrace happiness, peace and joy. So many people deny this human emotions and I have come to believe recognizing ALL feelings is an integral part of authenticating the self. I have not found a way to detach completely nor heal the body.
I am on the right path that began when I took action to leave an environment so entrenched with negativity it was killing me. Thank you for your words. Hi, Sherry. Thank you for sharing part of your story here. I apologize for not seeing your comment until now. At any rate, I see your insights in your words here, and I invite you to read directly on my blog. Very good.. We must have recovery paths the same as other victims just like how the stories are all the same. Truly Unbelievable to someone that it had not happened to,and yet it is happening. Awake Now. I have gone through this recently.
I have become strong enough to be able to notice when my narc starts doing his lil skits as I call them like gas lighting and playing the victim, but then he called a month ago wanting me to counsel him to not be a narcissist; I had already done my research and told him there is no cure but that I would help when ever he wanted a counsel and well still waiting for that counsel that I now know will never happen. Reading the email you sent has given me a lil satisfaction since it shows that I did everything right.
I still have a tough time sleeping at night though so if you have any suggestions I would love to hear it. Hi, Leandra. You can look this up and find info on it, but it basically means that you become emotionally unresponsive to the Narcissist, even if he crossed a boundary like you described. Instead of giving him a piece of your mind i. I understand. Hey, I gotta go.
I agree completely. Sharing is Caring. Sharing is caring. Your healed life starts with one step There was an error submitting your subscription. Please try again. I moved to another state and she still monopolizes my time with her drama. If I'm sleeping when she calls she leaves tons of voicemails saying I don't love her and I'm a horrible daughter.
I really think the only way to deal with this is to cut them off.
How To Deal With Energy Vampires (The Negative People Who Drain Your Emotions)
They can't see how negative they are. They don't want help because in their mind's they are the vitims. It is so frustrating. This is one of the rare articles in this blog that ring true compared with my experience. My parent was the daughter of a drunk and she definitely had all these characteristics and even though she has been dead a while now her toxic influence is still doing its job.
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She was a sales rep and I left the job and I gave her my number at first she call here and there. Then she started calling at 5 a. I started to tell her hey it is 5 in the morning. But she continued to call and I would have to turn off my phone. I thought what a mistake I made by giving her my number. She would talk about her life and it was obvious she had some issues. Then she told me about her abusive boyfriend who she had a son with. I would listen to this feeling sorry for her.
Telling her how to get put of the suituation or making suggestions and she would never leave. Then she started feel sorry for her routine she is an acholic and she told me she was diagnosed with generalized anxiety. She didn't want to work. I notice she would start on me and how I live and would like to hear how bad I was doing and got a bit jealous when things would go good with me. I have dogs she copied these dogs I had and then started breeding them. She told me she wasn't into it but she did anyways. I wish I never meet her after years of listening to her sorry routine.
I thought she was a friend and she just used me to suck the engergy out of me. You could never get her off the phone. I am glad I found this site. Hi, i just have to say WOW. I'm a 22 year Female and we have similar living situations.. I have a kid and i am doing my best to move out on my own soon as possible I don't fault my mother for her personality disorder it's just tough to deal with the negative and toxic behaviors of someone who is in denial all of time.
Reading your comment literally felt like i was reading my own feelings and thoughts. I pray things get better for you and your mom. Your post was so moving that although I've never commented on anything on the Internet, I felt compelled to do so. I don't know if this will reach you as your post is quite old,but I pray it does. Your English by the way is very good and so is your composition; better than most of my native speaking students ; You need to physically distance yourself from your mom.
I came to realize in my life that whenever I was living with or near my mom my life would just stall. Although my mom was not a bad person, she just drained me. I decided in my early 20's that if I wanted to succeed, I had to get away. We were very poor but I studied and worked hard, and became a travel nurse. Traveling for a living gave me the freedom. I always took care of my mom and tended to her many problems but from a distance.
15 SIGNS OF A NEGATIVE PERSON. • Keela Craft Ambrose
I visited as often as I could and I honored my mother until the end. You can do the same. There are professions that can afford you that freedom like language teacher, nursing, personal administrative assistant and many others. You'll be earning good money and can take care of your mom while maintaining your sanity. You may even find that perhaps your relationship with her improves. Sorry for the long post.
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I quickly found out that English is very difficult for others to learn. I will tell you that your English is better than my Korean If other people have a problem with your English, then ask them what other foreign language they speak. I hope if you get this it makes you smile. To come through the adversity that you have already experienced You are amazing and i sense that somehow you are going to be ok. Your message has inspired me to be stronger. Trust your instinct because it is speaking to you loud and clear.
Wishing you happiness.. Captain Jack I just wanted to say you are not alone in your suffering. I am a 40 yr old woman who dealt with this crazy mother for years till I was able to move far away. Believe me if you can find a way to move away from your controlling mother your life can get better. You can find happiness and contentment. I too was socially awkward, moreso in my younger years, and I think this was because my mother was unable to raise me properly. I suspect she has borderline personality disorder.
I finally went to a psychologist in my later years and spent 2 years in counseling. I learned how to set boundaries and was warned no matter how cruel it sounds to never ever let my mother live with me again as it would cause me mental harm and I already have complex PTSD from a childhood of abuse and neglect according to my psychologist.
I was so messed up I didn't realized I was neglected. You have a right to be happy 'Jack'. Your feelings matter and you must place your needs first if your mother is so cruel. Find a way to move out and start a life on your own. If you can move hundreds or thousands of miles away it makes it really hard for parents like that to disrupt your life.
You can do it Jack! I did so I know you can too! Although I cannot deny that it has a draining effect on others, negativity can also be a more accurate portrayal of reality. Is it worse to be blindly positive, when it leads to the denial of truth, or is it better to be realistically negative? It seems to be a trait of western societies to want to live in a culture of comforting lies, rather than inconvenient truths.
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The quote: "keeping your head to the sunshine so you can't see the shadows" is frankly ridiculous. We only see the true shape and texture of things if that light also has shadow. Similarly, happiness can only come about if we embrace and accept the negatives along with the positives. They will bite your hand off. I had a girlfriend for 18 months who was an energy drainer.
Constant negativety no matter the subject. Then I got sick and she said she fell out of love with me and didnt want to stay out of pity. I think she did me a favour. Pure "poison" for my health. Yet why do we hang onto such people long after we expose them? After reading this article i was wondering if I was one of those people that the article is targeting. Maybe at times I was, but i have encountered a few people like this in my life and their behavior and personalities are not only draining, but also can be contagious.
I dated this woman about 11 years ago. I have to admit that her woes and troubles were a constant battle in her life and that I was willing to comfort her s she was willing to reciprocate them for me. I was going through a divorce at the time. Although this article will described the bad points of these kinds of people, there are a segment of the respective energy vampires who can exhibit a very charming, magnetic and charismatic side as well.
She is 35, single, no kids, works as a care worker for kids including ones with disabilities. This is a hard job even for one with their own family, for her it has left her deeply negative. I've never spoken to her as the need for mirrors was needed to reflect her bad energy later found to be negativity. The feeling of her bad negativity without the protection of my mirrors was quite shocking!
She was heard coming down the stairs. One neighbour has lived with her upstairs for 4 years, not a word! Walked on past as was going to the shops. It was her again, my strange neighbour. But the day she came back after losing the job, her negative energy was so strong it was deeply affecting me as I tried to sleep, after going to bed early after getting up early. To stop her energy leaving me quite so uncomfortable, a large mirror was placed facing her flat.
Shame she's like that, but it's clearly why she is as she is, deeply negative. One reason many people will stare or look at someone and not speak is because they have a social anxiety problem. Try researching Aspergers syndrome. Also many people who are or have been abused will behave this way because they are been conditioned to say as little as possible to avoid trouble and they are terrified of other people. Maybe try looking at it from someone else's point of view.
Have you ever considered maybe they even think you are scary or negative so this is why they do not acknowledge you? Wrong forum! No more replies will be posted, waste of time clearly. Perhaps their effect has made me forget the need for them until the event noted above. Autism is a spectrum disorder and Aspergers people are at the high end of functioning. They are just like anyone else save the social awkwardness, usually high IQ'ed and a few have motor control problems.
The vast majority are able to drive a car and many especially the women are able to live alone. Used to help out at Autism society functions so I have experienced being around quite a lot of adults with Aspergers. I do think its funny you call someone else strange acting when you talk extensively about Tarot, Runes and Feng Shui. You must not know most normal people do not do this. Your negative comment about delving beyond the norm is perhaps to be expected.
Your tone is oddly negative trying to keep me down, exactly the basis of this article!
How well we keep it under control divides those people noted as sane or not. I'll do a Tarot reading shortly when in the mood to try. I must say that you're ignorant when it comes to mental, physiological and psychological disorders.
15 SIGNS OF A NEGATIVE PERSON.
People like you who spew out silly stuff like the stuff you're typing in regard to mental issues are the reason why many people are so negative and some even commit suicide. I'm not exactly sure if you are trying to provoke people or if you seriously believe what you type. Everybody is the way they are for a reason. Do not be ignorant - when it comes to the various mental states of people. I'm sure if you were truly a positive person you would not be here posting the stuff you're posting. You're spewing out a little bit of arrogance mixed with a little bit of reflective negativity, but subtly trying to disguise it as positivity with your choice of words.
Giving credit where credit is due, I will say that yes, it is true that we are all something to a degree. However, this does not mean you know what it's like for someone who is TRULY one of those things to a serious degree and you do not understand their circumstances and the type of things they've been through. Go do some research on the types of people you're judging and talking about. And lastly, no one, at least from this page, is trying to keep you down, lol. These are simply words typed on a public page. If arranged font and text is keeping you down then you may have some issues just like the rest of the people who's issues you are downplaying and trying to disregard.
Sometimes people doing this know what they're doing; sometimes they do not. But either way, they do it. Only for that damsel to turn out to be a vampiress. He looked like a zombie The vampire had found another host. Cross your arms. Cross your legs. He will be unable to draw energy from you, and will leave. His visits quickly became less and less frequent, and for shorter and shorter amounts of time.
Eventually, he quit making them altogether. Just not a raging asshole, is what I mean. If so, you're vulnerable to a psychic vampire. These individuals are ALWAYS: Trapped in victim mentality and in need of saving Immune to efforts to permanently bolster their confidence Always in need of another emotional "fix" from you You'll tend to get caught up in thinking that - just like the white knight - if only you can save this person, you will then have a powerful, gifted, unique ally who will be loyal to you for life for having helped turn his or her emotional life around.
Only, you can't turn it around. And they must find a willing host with a rich trove of strong positive emotions to feed from. Why can't you just re-vampire your energy BACK from the vampire? This is why your efforts to empower fall on deaf ears. This is why you're never able to fully reach her. Meantime, you are trying to build her up via emotional contagion.
So, you put energy into lifting her up, but she dismisses your efforts. She won't listen to you or do what you want to do. Only what SHE wants to do is okay. You try again; she dismisses. Identifying Vampires I have people accuse me sometimes of being too extreme in writing off certain kinds of people. How do you know if someone is a psychic vampire or not?
Easy: How do you feel whenever this person is around? The first one is the only one you really need. The other questions are just bonuses. Warding Them Off Unfortunately, garlic doesn't do the trick here. Misery loves company. As soon as you realize this, here's what you do: Set the person straight they won't listen. Don't Be a Vampire Most vampires aren't bad people. Nothing you can do will get through. I promise you. And if you ever notice yourself behaving like a vampire In real life, you can't stake a vampire in the heart.
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